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babies, breastfeeding, general parenting, nighttime parenting

Attachment Parenting: How We Got There

  These are some things I believed about myself and my children before I became a mom: I would breastfeed on a schedule, for my children needed to adhere to…

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general parenting

A Beautiful Mess

The first major conflict between Kevin and I happened about a week before our wedding. For months, we had been collecting furniture and decor and packing up our belongings, and…

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general parenting

How Hygge Can Help your Family

Dozens of candles are lit. Soft instrumental music is playing. Your house is filled with the scent of stove-popped popcorn and you can taste the warm vanilla in your cup…

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general parenting

10 Positive Discipline Tips I Learned from my Counselor

  “How are you doing today?” my counselor asked as I entered her office. I wondered if she noticed the smudged mascara on my face and assumed, correctly, that I…

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general parenting

40 Things to do Outside with your Kids this Winter

  I will be the first to confess that winter is not my favorite season. I don’t love the cold. Because of this, I am privy to staying indoors. But…

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  • babies,  general parenting

    The 1st Birthday Party – 10 Tips for Hosting a Memorable Event without Breaking the Bank (or Losing your Mind)

    September 9, 2018 / No Comments

    When I turned one, my birthday party consisted of family coming over to enjoy some snacks and a homemade chocolate cake my mom lovingly decorated with Big Bird. There were some gifts, maybe a few balloons. It was not a big deal, just a time to celebrate with loved ones. But in this day and age, especially under the influence of social media, there’s an expectation of hosting an elaborate, themed birthday party for your little one. Spend five minutes on Pinterest, and you will become either inspired or discouraged by the intensity with which people plan for baby’s first birthday. A beautiful party is all well and good, but…

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    Kristin

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    April 13, 2019

    Attachment Parenting: Nurturing a Secure Attachment with your Baby

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    Flowers for our Wild Flower – Lucy’s First Birthday Party

    September 6, 2018
  • babies,  general parenting

    Flowers for our Wild Flower – Lucy’s First Birthday Party

    September 6, 2018 / No Comments

    There’s something magical and crazy about your baby turning one. So much changes in one rotation around the sun, and that little infant that you nuzzled and worried about has become a tiny human with personality and skills and opinions. For me, it evoked a lot of sentimentality. I chose to spend Lucy’s birthday reading through the journal we began the day we learned of her existence and reflecting on her birth and life. Then, after a fun day at the zoo, a few small gifts, photos, and Lucy’s first ice-cream cone, the birth day itself was over, but the party was still to come. The First Birthday Party Before…

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    Kristin

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    Attachment Parenting: Nurturing a Secure Attachment with your Baby

    April 27, 2019

    The 1st Birthday Party – 10 Tips for Hosting a Memorable Event without Breaking the Bank (or Losing your Mind)

    September 9, 2018

    Attachment Theory: An Introduction

    April 13, 2019
  • pregnancy and birth

    Lucy – A Birth Story

    August 30, 2018 / No Comments

    Her birth was as all births are: paradoxically traumatic and beautiful. I remember laboring in the tub in the rosy glow of a salt lamp, my husband behind me, rubbing my back, whispering quiet encouragement in the dark veil of night. I remember the way the music echoed softly against the tile walls, the gentle swishing of water as I continually repositioned myself, the primal moaning that cadenced with each contraction. We were the only ones delivering in The Birth Center that night, and it was so peaceful and still, like we were the only people in the world who were awake. The midwife periodically snuck into the room, checked…

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    Kristin

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    Fertility Awareness – How To

    August 5, 2018

    8 Reasons why Natural Childbirth is Worth it

    May 10, 2019

    Levi – A Birth Story

    May 23, 2019
  • general parenting

    Baby Wearing – Why this Simple Tool Makes a World of Difference

    August 27, 2018 / No Comments

    It is the one essential baby item I couldn't do without. My husband calls it part of my "mom uniform." I call it a lifesaver. I honestly don't know I would have parented our babies without it. It's the baby carrier.

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    Kristin

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    5 Daily “Educational” Activities to do with Your Child This Summer

    June 13, 2019

    Being Outside in January: How Braving the Cold has Benefited our Family

    February 1, 2019

    Be Present, Pursue, and Practice Empathy – Parenting Skills for Weathering Your Child’s Inevitable Emotional Episodes

    May 28, 2019
  • children's books

    5 Alphabet Books for Little Learners

    August 24, 2018 / No Comments

    It’s hard to believe that it’s back to school season already! We are not sending Levi to preschool this year, but we are hoping to make every day an opportunity for learning at home. Right now, Levi is very interested in letters. He has mastered the letters “L” and “E” and enjoys pointing them out and writing them on any approved surface. His enthusiasm has led to us reading books about the alphabet quite a lot. Here are five alphabet books that we enjoy at our house. We’ve been reading them to Levi for years, and now Lucy will pick them up and plop them in our laps. Each one…

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Meet Kristin

Hey! I'm a wife and mama of two beautiful kiddos. I believe in the power of words, beauty, faith, grace, and love. While I love to theorize about and strive for parenting ideals, I value the art of keeping it real. Thanks for reading.

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