There are so many books out there that can be helpful in the parenting journey. The following books have influenced our personal philosophy and our decision making for the better.
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Ideal for: all parents, all humans
We recommend this book to everyone, parent or not. This book, more than any other, influences the way we parent. It provides an importance basis for understanding attachment styles and how it influences us as parents, spouses, and people in general. Kevin originally read this as a textbook for his counseling program, but don’t let that scare you: it’s insightful, interesting, and easy to read.
Ideal for: parents who are looking for a new perspective on parenting
If you’re finding that your parenting journey has felt more stressed than happy, it may be time to take some advice from the Danes. Using the acronym PARENT – play, authenticity, reframing, empathy, no ultimatums, togetherness and hygge – the book shows how the values of the Danish culture impact parenting and, in turn, the nature of their children. I found this easy-to-read book to be a gem, ripe with helpful tips and ideas to make time with my children more enjoyable and life-giving.
Ideal for: parents considering, or are already committed to, co-sleeping
I was pregnant with my second and co-sleeping with our toddler when I picked this book up from a resource shelf at the birth center. Though co-sleeping was working well for Levi, I still felt a bit ashamed about the whole ordeal. Fortunately, though, I read this book. With a casual tone, Gordon and Goodavage address the history and benefits of co-sleeping (even its impact on sex). Reading this book actually pushed me to make the decision to co-sleep with Lucy right from the start, and I’m so glad we did.
Ideal for: Christian parents
As a Christian, I’ve struggled with finding a harmonious union between biblical wisdom and cultural psychology and theory. I found that I have disagreed with a lot of Christian parenting advice, finding most recommendations are focused more on behavioral modification than true discipleship. Paul Tripp’s book, however, is completely founded on the principles of grace and how we use that to be advocates of God’s love in the lives of our children. It has changed the way I think about parenting on a day-to-day basis, and has reminded me that I need God’s grace in my own life in order to parent well.
Ideal for: parents of toddlers and up; parents who feel their child is overwhelmed or demonstrating negative behaviors
In a culture that values stuff, busyness, and entertainment, children are beginning to suffer. Payne offers many insights into how to create a more simple life for our children, and for ourselves. With practical suggestions and the reasoning to back, this book offers a lot to the American parent and, ultimately, to our children. I found it to be highly convicting.
Ideal for: parents considering breastfeeding, parents of breastfed children
If you need information on why breastfeeding matters or an encouragement to stick with it, this book is for you. Personal and informative, Grayson takes the reader through a journey of the importance of breastfeeding, why it’s so controversial, and the benefits of breastfeeding for the mother, child, and society at large.
Ideal for: parents of toddlers through grade-schoolers
This text is so helpful for understanding the way that the mind of a young child works. So often, we put too high of expectations on our children, especially when it comes to their emotions. This text helps with understanding why our children behave then they do, and with helpful illustrations, illuminating anecdotes, and practical strategies, it helps equip parents to help young ones navigate through their emotions and make sense of the world around them.
Ideal for: homeschooling parents
This book is full of inspiring, practical ideas to prepare you to homeschool. Bogart has established herself as a homeschooling guru and will keep you entertained while giving you wonderful methods and wisdom to make your homeschooling experience, and your relationship with your kids, richer.
Ideal for: parents of little ones
This book will remind you of the amazing gifts your little one has, and instruct you on, as the title says, what they really need from us adults. It will make you reframe your thinking on what’s most important in education, play, and relating to these special little people.
Ideal for: any parents
This book is full of information and practical advice for getting your kids to become a lover of nature. Sampson laces anecdotes, statistics, and tips together in an extensive text that will inspire you to be a nature mentor to your kids, whatever age they are. It also will remind you of our need for nature; something that we, as a society, are forgetting all too often.
Ideal for: homeschooling parents
This book is what fully inspired me to homeschool my kiddos. Gleaning from the rich wisdom of educator Charlotte Mason, Macaulay’s text provides a foundation for the whys and hows of home education.
Ideal for: parents-to-be through parents of teenagers
This book is an incredible reference, based off of the experience and knowledge of Dr. Paul Thomas. It provides a different perspective on the issue of vaccines, fully backed by science and his extensive personal experience. This book revolutionized my thinking.